Picture: Counsel #14 — Professional Assistance CWe 74.1
In many societies today, a large majority of people believe asking for help when struggling is considered to be “weak.” But fluctuating emotions can make you do things you never thought you’d do and seeking support may be proof of how strong you are! CWe 74.2
In addition to God’s holy counsel, a trained professional, such as a counselor, therapist, or pastor, can offer unbiased guidance and deep insights. If you’re going through a stressful situation and you can’t pinpoint the cause, a professional can help you identify the stressor while also assisting with the development of healthier coping mechanisms. Pastors can offer godly counsel and faith-based encouragement when needed. Even though your first reaction may be to bottle up all your issues and keep things to yourself, God designed us for community and fellowship with others who have our best interests in mind. Whenever you think giving up may be easier,[87]https://988lifeline.org/ (Available in the United States in English and Spanish.)* let that be your sign to contact a professional. It’s far better to work through the stress than to let it overcome you![88]https://adventistreview.org/magazine-article/i-finally-got-help/ CWe 74.3
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17 NIV CWe 74.4
“Oh, for generals, wise and considerate, well-balanced men, who will be safe advisers, who have some insight into human nature, who know how to direct and counsel in the fear of God.” Ellen White in Mind, Character, and Personality, vol.2 , p. 763 CWe 74.5
Reflect: Have you ever been to a counselor or therapist? Did they help? CWe 74.6
