Counsel #8 — Loss Of Self-Control

Picture: Counsel #8 — Loss Of Self-ControlCWe 55.1

Before we experience the new birth of spiritual renewal, we may find it difficult in our sinful nature to say no. We might struggle with resisting cravings or unhealthy habits, prioritizing immediate gratification over long-term well-being. Certainly, we can still be tempted after we have given ourselves to Jesus, but in His strength we can be self-controlled.CWe 55.2

It's easy to point our fingers at others’ lack of self-control in certain areas where we might not struggle. But what if we ourselves have an uncontrolled appetite for power? Money? Gossip? Unhealthy relationships? Sexual activity outside of biblical marriage? Social Media?CWe 55.3

Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit. As our faith increases and our convictions deepen, we will reflect more and more the control of self that Jesus modeled in all areas of life.^{[67]https://www.askanadventistfriend.com/adventist-health/self-control/}CWe 55.4

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.” Galatians 5:22, 23 NKJVCWe 55.5

“In his own strength man cannot rule his spirit. But through Christ he may gain self-control.” Ellen White in Reflecting Christ, p. 293CWe 55.6

Reflect: Do you find yourself blaming your lack of self-control on circumstances or other people? In what ways could you hold yourself accountable for lack of self-control?CWe 55.7